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Homophobia

Sat Jun 14, 2008, 5:11 PM
I got this from :iconmcrxpatdxgdxfob13: Who got it from :icontomozveda: who got it from :iconfalloutxdisco:

Please, repost this in support of your friends and loved ones who are. Love is not defined by color, creed, sexual preference, or gender. Feel free to add your own story to the end.

I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman.

I am the boy who never finished high school, because I got called a fag everyday

I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian.

I am the one working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.

I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.

I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.

We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.

I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male.

I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men.

I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that.

I am the woman who died when the EMTs stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transsexual.

I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I didn't have to always deal with society hating me.

I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don't believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.

I am a warrior for my country serving proud, but can't be my true self because gays aren't allowed in the military.

I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love.

I am the person ashamed to tell my own friends I'm a lesbian, because they constantly make fun of them.

I am the who isn't sure what she is. I am the who is rejected by her "best friends" because of a less-than-conventional crush.

I am what I am and I don't know who because I am always thinking about what other people will make of me. Who am I? Not boy not girl, just me and little people care about who you are and what you long for when you look like someone else obviously and your wishes and dreams seem easily to be guessed. Fail.

I am the boy tied to a fence, beaten to a bloody pulp and left to die because two straight men wanted to "teach me a lesson."

This is the boy, Matthew Shepard. On October 7, 1998 Aaron McKinney and Russell Henderson lead him to a remote area east of Laramie where they demonstrated unimaginable acts of brutality . Matthew was tied to a split-rail fence where he was beaten and left to die in the cold of the night. Almost 18 hours later he was found by a cyclist who initially mistook him for a scarecrow. Matthew died on October 12 at 12:53 am at a hospital in Fort Collins, Colorado. MURDERED BECAUSE HE WAS GAY!!!


IF YOU BELIEVE THAT HOMOPHOBIA IS WRONG... REPOST THIS
AS "HOMOPHOBIA."

IF YOU ARE IGNORANT... IGNORE.

Please, repost this in support of your friends and loved ones who are. Love is not defined by color, creed, sexual preference, or gender!

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:iconblondrose84:
Sad. I'm bi-sexual. I didn't really finally stop to admit it to myself till just this year. Before I used to be the one who tried to say being bisexual, gay, or lesbian was bad. But only because the church told me so. Well, most churches. But I know I should be honest. I've always felt a certian way about girls and guys. I'm not a whore, defently not. I still belive in the balance of male/female, but.... I also know I can't help some things. It's funny. Not ha ha funny. But... I made such a turn around after I finally stopped trying so hard to pretend that I'm something I'm not. It wasn't until I watched/listened to this one song, Avenue Q, If you were gay, that I finally came around to being okey with it. And that I shouldn't be ashamed. Oh well. I'm bi. But, you know... I also don't belive in marching in any damn parades. I'm bi, oh well. I'm different, I know. And there's gonna be people that hate eveything you are, somewhere in the world. But you gotta life your head up, after your done crying over yourself, get up and be the best person you are. Don't make one little part of yourself so big you can't see the rest of you. Just get up and get back on that horse and if no one will hire you. Start your own business. Find those who will accept you. Be glad for what you do have and build. Don't kill yourself. You're running away from the problem and that's wrong. Just keep being a good person, be nice. But don't shove it down their throats. You wouldn't want them to do it to you. So fallow the golden rule. Sorry for this whole speech. I know my views might be a bit different then others. But. Oh well. :) *smiles innocently* I know I'm different. Always have been, always will. And I'm glad for that. I'd rather be me then someone else.

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:iconkplady13:
Amen to that. :]
It's alright, I'm glad to know. You seem like a kind-hearted person, and that's all that matters.
If someone doesn't like you for it, that's they're problem, not yours. :)

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:iconblondrose84:
Yeah. I know. :) I mean. I used to be a bible thumper, as I said, so I understand where those who don't like bi/les/gay relashionships. I mean. irl-I'm celibate too. I dont drink, smoke, nothing. I don't even swear irl. Online, yes, I do all that, lol, like when I rp *soft blush/bit of a nerd* But I actually get alot more upset if someone insults or brings down my religion or race or something. *sigh* I'm actually thinking I might tell meh mum I'm bi, I'm scared. But I know she loves me. And when I'm ready, I'll tell others too. *soft blush* I just hope I don't give my mom a stroke. *tears*

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You don't have to be Religious or Straight to be Pro-life.
Come to the good side: Our cookies aren't laced with poison.
I support Inter Species relationships & their awesome offspring.
:iconkplady13:
Don't worry I rp too lol. And I do wish you luck if you decide to tell your mother. That must be hard. :hug:

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-Spock; The Alternative Factor.
Don't click this link...
R.I.P. Yoite. Icon by Sigtryggr.
:iconblondrose84:
I will tell her. I live with her, she needs me to help takes care of her and on monday, due to the floods we can't go to the Food Bank (donations for poor folk like us) so I'll be buying groceries with my paycheck, instead of seeing someone about my heart. :( And I need to do commission jobs baddly too, to help pays for bills and hopefully see someone about his heart. [link] I'm also worried bout the stress of thinking about telling her and the longer I put it off, the worse stress for meh heart. My insurance will only pay for emergencies in one of the flooded towns two towns over (Coralville) My last journal entry has a bit explaining this. (about the flooding and where I am.) Anyways, I think I should tell her. I need to be honest. *tears/afraid*

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You don't have to be Religious or Straight to be Pro-life.
Come to the good side: Our cookies aren't laced with poison.
I support Inter Species relationships & their awesome offspring.
:iconkplady13:
She's your mother, she will accept you no matter what. But once again, I do wish you the best of luck. :)

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"Jim, madness has no purpose, or reason. But it may have a goal."
-Spock; The Alternative Factor.
Don't click this link...
R.I.P. Yoite. Icon by Sigtryggr.
:iconblondrose84:
Yeah, I told her this morning. She does accept me. She wondered if it was because of my abusive father, but I told her it wasn't. And that bi dosn't mean I'm a bloody lesbian!!! Gah! >.<**** It just means I'm, like half hetero, half homo. I go both ways. *sigh* She's catholic, so... yeah. But she says the family will be suprised. Bt that she loves me still and that it was good I tolds her. *soft blush/deep-needs hug* >.< *tears* I'm still shy though. I still gotta tells meh republican family. *timid*

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You don't have to be Religious or Straight to be Pro-life.
Come to the good side: Our cookies aren't laced with poison.
I support Inter Species relationships & their awesome offspring.
:iconkplady13:
I'm glad things whent well with telling her. :) :hug:
You have my best of luck with telling your family. Just tell them whenever your ready. It should go well too. :)

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-Spock; The Alternative Factor.
Don't click this link...
R.I.P. Yoite. Icon by Sigtryggr.
:iconblondrose84:
Thankies :hug:

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Come to the good side: Our cookies aren't laced with poison.
I support Inter Species relationships & their awesome offspring.

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